Surf report: 3-4 feet solid
Winds: on shore
Atmosphere: gloomy
Water: Warmer
Saturday was a lackluster day for surf. It was not a day to write home about. I had fun, but when I heard Matt and
Fransauce scored in HB, I started thinking maybe I can make the trek down to
Huntington too.
Nicky calls me, saying that he got off work Saturday night,
and wanted to surf Sunday morning.
Christina called me too, saying that she wanted to go down, so Nicky and
I would meet her down there.
I get up at 530 AM and snooze for about ten minutes. I do my stretches, and call Nicky. I wasn’t really surprised that he was
up. I felt that he wanted to surf, and
so he would be up no matter what. I swing
by his house and drop off his belated birthday gift I’ve had since the end of January
and we give each other deep, loving hugs.
I missed this kid!
We make our way down to the 405, and catch up on life. We get off Goldenwest, our old stomping
grounds where we “camped” out in my van and slept over to wake up to empty surf. We park our car in the residential area, as
we always do, and get changed. I had to
pee so badly I pee’d in my wetsuit while standing on the blacktop.
Christina was already in the water, and we were able to spot
her blue OCD board. Her board’s wax job
is a direct reflection of her: the wax
job is just so calculated and precise, not a grain of wax is out of place.
For the first hour or so, I didn’t really catch
anything. The rising tide was really
making things difficult for anyone to catch a wave. I told myself not to drift, but I saw Nicky
drifting, so I said fuck it and let the current take me. It was a Sunday morning. Just chill and relax!
I took a small wave for a short ride. I look back, and these sets started to roll
in. I could see Nicky getting pummeled on
the first one that rolled over me. Then I
see a second one, and a third one, and a fourth one in the horizon. A smile runs across my face. This is what I’ve been missing! A good pounding on the inside. I start to gun for the horizon, but every
time I duck dive, the white water steamrolls me. I see Nicky get further and further
back. His arms are not in surfer
shape. Christina is getting pounded like
a piece of veal way on the inside. I make
it out after a few sets, but Nicky comes back a bit later, saying he took at
least ten on the head. Christina comes
back waaaaaaay later, and I’m guessing she took at least ten on the head
too.
We drifted into this pack of surfers who were highly
competitive and were packed into this small peak. I tried to go for a wave, but this guy was
literally right next to me, where his rail would touch my rail. Yes, he had the inside, so I backed out, but
man, I couldn’t really understand why he had to be so close the whole
time! I had enough of this drifting, so I
paddled away from the pack and sat on my own peak.
And then the waves just started coming. I lost track of Nicky and Christina. I caught about four consecutive sets on this
one peak with no one around. It was just
exhilarating to work on my cut backs and pumping. My board felt really good under my feet. The high tide definitely made the wave a
little weaker, but it’s Huntington! The water
moves a lot faster here than it does in LA.
Enter longboarder #3.
This longboarder and I share a wave. We pop up at the same time, so I decided to
follow him. He dropped in on me, but at
this point, I didn’t really care. I pumped,
did a semi cutback, carved and pumped all the way to where he was. I laughed and smiled, clapping my hands, and
pointing at him. The look of fear
overtook this guy’s face. “Dude, it’s my
last wave! I’m going in! I’m going in!” I was like… what? I’m not chasing you out… I’m actually stoked
that you caught a wave!! Then I realized, he probably got chased out a few
times for doing what he just did, and didn’t want any “problems.” That was definitely weird.
Nicky paddles over, saying that Christina took off because
her meter was running out. He and I stayed
out for a few more waves, and I could tell his arms were just burning from fatigue,
so I said, “Last wave?”
“Yea, last wave,” he replied.
Pho Ga |
Right on queue, a small wave came. It wasn’t anything spectacular, but I rode it
in, and called it a day.
Yea, the waves were nice, but I think surfing and spending
time with Nicky made it all the more better.
Not taking anything away from Christina, but Nicky is my little brother
from another mother, and I haven’t spent time with him in a long time. It’s all love.
We decide to drive down a little further to Brookhurst and
get some Pho. From there, we ate Chicken
Pho (Pho Ga) and a spring roll each, and took him six sandwiches each. Huzzah!!
What a perfect way to start a Sunday.
6 sammiches each |
This whole weekend has been an activity-filled weekend,
since our annual basketball tournament was on.
My boys’ team, the WLA Lightning, is the host of this tournament. I have participated in this when since I was
in 2nd grade, and all the way through high school. I coached a team from 3rd grade to
high school, and once they graduated, I took on this new team.
I’ve had some kids quit already, but there are a few core
kids that always come to practice, and always come to the games. However, Friday night, I was informed that we
may have to forfeit since there were only 3 kids showing up to the game at 10
AM. I was very frustrated, and severely
angry. I sent out an angry email, which I
re-wrote three or four times to tone it down (my friend Lisa told me, “That’s
toned down??” haha) and hammered the parents for not committing to a tournament
we were hosting. One of the parents
finally answered back, saying that they were quitting. I couldn’t believe that they would notify us
the day before a tournament that they were quitting!! This kid, whom I love, hasn’t shown up to
practice, and we were trying to get in contact with him for months. And then, he just ups and leaves without any
reason, or any heads up. I’ve had kids
quit like this before, and it always leaves a bad taste in my mouth.
In the end, we got 5 kids to show up to the 10 AM game, and
steam rolled the other team. We had
another game at 7 PM, and we had two more kids show up. I grilled one of the parents about his commitment
to the team, and how much of a burden he created by not communicating with
us. He was very apologetic, and I told
him that all I have now is his word that he will commit to the team, and that
was that.
Sunday morning, this parent that I grilled shows up and
volunteers as scorekeeper from early in the morning, making his actions speak
louder than his words. That definitely
pleased me. I’m always a believer in
actions speaking louder than words.
Sunday’s game was our “championship” game. I took one of my big bags that I put my
groceries in and told them:
“This bag right here, this is my trophy bag. You guys won both games yesterday, so this is our championship game. You guys are getting trophies after this game. If you guys win, you can keep these trophies. If you guys lose, I take your trophies into my trophy bag.”
“This bag right here, this is my trophy bag. You guys won both games yesterday, so this is our championship game. You guys are getting trophies after this game. If you guys win, you can keep these trophies. If you guys lose, I take your trophies into my trophy bag.”
They all looked scared to lose. They looked fired up for the game.
Now, the game was a good game. The parents were into it, we were into
it. The first half was all us. We came out of the gates really strong. But the second half belonged to the other
team. In the end, we ended up in a
tie. We don’t keep score since these are
2nd graders, but the parents kept score, and we were tied at the end
of the game. So…
The balls spin on these trophies!! how cool is that??? |
“I get to keep all your trophies!” These are really nice trophies too. Way better than the ones I used to get, or my
previous team used to get too! The look
of devastation and sadness on my kids faces… PRICELESS!!
I told the parents to please not tell them that I’m giving
them back the trophies at Friday’s practice.
I am a mean coach, but not that mean.
I am giving them back. A lot of
the parents had a sinister smile on their face and agreed not to. I think they want their kids to be
winners. I just fear that one of the
parents will let the cat out of the bag.
I want the kids to get a taste of bitterness when they lose an important
game. They should learn from their loss,
not be rewarded for their loss.
Mahalos Mother Ocean!!
You made my day.
aww man.. I don't see you as a meanie.. you are usually very inspiring..BUT wow.. what a meanie! LOL
ReplyDeletesurfing grandma! thanks for reading! being mean can be inspiring too, right?? hehehe
DeleteFirst off, great write up on HB. I'm glad you scored. I wish I could have joined you and Nicky. That's crazy how that guy thought you were chasing him out of the water. Also, I don't care if it's anyone's last wave. Dropping in is dropping in. How was the chicken pho? Was the meat tough? The meat's been a little tough to me lately. Thanks for sharing your experience coaching the kids too. Just because we start the day surfing doesn't mean that that's all our day consists of. You seem like an intense coach, but I admire how you stick to you guns when it comes to your principles. These are good lessons that these kids are learning at a young age. And for those parents that are flakes? They're not showing the right example. I hope we score waves like this together soon.
ReplyDeletethanks DD for posting a comment. the chicken pho meat... i don't know? i think we were there for the broth, really. warm broth to warm up our cold bodies!
Deleteyea, i am an intense coach. that's probably why a handful of kids already quit. but hey, quitters never win and winners never quit! yea, those parents who flaked out, i don't want to judge them from solely a basketball coach's perspective... i'm sure kids nowadays have so much going on... but still!! attitude starts with the parents and ends with the kids. indeed, a bad example is being set if the parents can't commit to a few hours of basketball with their friends.
KK. I just want to say My daughter played Basketball and soccer and tennis and golf..She is like my Sporty Spice out of my five kids. All my other kids have also played various sports and been involved in a variety of extra curricular activities. I have been a team mom too, and have seen first hand how some of these parents can be.
DeleteThat being said I have also seen crappy coaches too. Not you (I AM SURE YOU ROCK AS A COACH AND WISHED YOU WERE MY KIDS COACH)
I think when you make a commitment and your child makes a commitment. IT should be followed through to the end. It doesn't just hurt the team it hurts the child. How are they gonna learn!
I use to get a bit upset, when I got emails or the parents came to me and used the child not attending a game as a punishment because they didn't do their homework or got a bad grade or punched their little sister, didn't eat their vegetables.. etc etc.. I understand this, I am a parent too..BUT you are punishing the team not just one player. OH I CAN GO ON AN ON! Ha!
And I agree with DD. Thanks for sharing you are more than a surfer =)!